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#113. Who Are You in Your Relationship, and do You Like it?

Who you are in your relationship matters more than you may realize.

In this episode, we explore the concept of your relationship identity, -how you see yourself, who you believe you are, and the role you unconsciously play in your marriage and other close relationships. 

Many women are still operating from identities formed decades ago, which are often rooted in survival, people-pleasing, resentment, or victimhood…without ever realizing it.

If you’ve ever thought:

  • “Something feels off, but I can’t name it,”
  • “I don’t really like who I am in this relationship,” or
  • “I don’t want to keep repeating this same dynamic,”

this episode is for you.

We’ll talk about:

  • How early marriage and family roles shape your identity
  • Common relationship identities women adopt (and why they make sense)
  • Why staying loyal to an outdated identity creates resentment and disconnection
  • How identity, -not effort, is what actually changes relationships
  • How to tap into your Future Self to consciously create a new, healthier relationship identity
  • Powerful “I am” statements to help you shift who you’re being from the inside out

This is sacred, grown-up relationship work that can be a game changer for you.  You don’t need your partner to change first. Transformation begins when you do.

 

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Happy in the Middle is a podcast for Christian women who want to make the second half of life, the BEST half. This podcast is all about helping women reignite their spark and step into their divine power, in order to create deep and connected relationships, and find the fulfillment and satisfaction they crave. 

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