✓ "We love each other, but we feel disconnected."

✓ "We don't want to give up, -we want to find our way back."

✓ "We keep having the same conversations and need a better way."

✓ "We want to strengthen our marriage before things become harder."

✓ "We want our relationship to grow deeper in this next season of life."

What If Your Marriage Could Feel Like This?

Imagine...

Having conversations where you feel heard instead of misunderstood.

Knowing how to handle conflict without creating more distance.

Feeling emotionally safe enough to be honest.

Laughing together again.

Enjoying friendship and companionship.

Feeling like you and your spouse are on the same team.

Not because your marriage became perfect...

but because you learned how to intentionally care for it.

Are You Ready to Reset Your Marriage?

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This Is More Than Information.

This Is Practice.

Most couples don't struggle because they don't know marriage matters.

They struggle because they don't have a safe place to practice new ways of relating.

The Marriage Reset Challenge Gives You:

✓ Weekly coaching and guidance

✓ Practical tools you can use immediately

✓ A framework for understanding yourself and your spouse

✓ Support as you create new patterns

✓ A community of couples who believe their marriage is worth investing in

✓ A fun way to come together again, and rekindle both your friendship, and the flame that brought you together

A Note From Jane

Dear friend,

I created The Marriage Reset Challenge because I believe marriage is one of the most important relationships we will ever nurture.

I have spent years coaching women who deeply love their husbands but privately wonder:

"Can we feel close again?"

My answer is yes.

Not because marriage is easy.

Not because we can control another person.

But because connection can be rebuilt when we are willing to grow, learn, and turn toward each other again.

I believe God cares deeply about our marriages.

I believe He is a God of restoration.

And I believe there are beautiful chapters still waiting to be written.

That is why I created Marriage Reset.

I would be honored to walk alongside you.

With love,

Jane

Frequently Asked Questions 

Is The Marriage Reset Challenge a Christian Program?

Yes. Marriage Reset is designed specifically for Christian couples and is grounded in faith, while also incorporating proven principles from relationship science, communication, attachment, and emotional regulation.

We believe your faith isn't something you have to leave at the door when you're working on your marriage. Throughout Marriage Reset, we'll explore how principles like grace, humility, forgiveness, honesty, service, and love can shape the way you show up for one another.

This isn't about having a "perfect marriage." It's about creating a marriage where you can grow together, with God at the center.

Who is Marriage Reset for?

Marriage Reset is for couples who still love each other but know they want more.

Maybe you've grown apart. Maybe you're having the same arguments over and over. Maybe communication has become difficult, intimacy has changed, or you're simply tired of feeling more like roommates than partners.

You don't have to be in crisis to benefit from Marriage Reset.

In fact, some of the best time to invest in your marriage is before you're in trouble.

Marriage Reset is for couples who are willing to look honestly at their relationship, take responsibility for their part, and intentionally create something better together.

Do both spouses need to participate?

Ideally, yes. Marriage Reset is designed as a couples experience, and you'll get the greatest benefit when both spouses participate.

That said, you don't need to wait for your spouse to become enthusiastic about marriage coaching before you begin working on yourself.

One person can change the dynamic of a relationship by changing the way they communicate, respond, listen, set boundaries, and show up.

If your spouse is hesitant, don't pressure or persuade them. Start with what you can control, -you.  I'll help you think about how you might approach the situation with wisdom and love.

What if our marriage isn't in crisis?

That's actually one of my favorite reasons to work with a couple!

Marriage Reset isn't designed only for couples whose marriage is falling apart.

Maybe you love each other and have a good marriage, but you know you could be more connected. Maybe you've entered a new season of life and want to find each other again. Maybe the kids are leaving home, careers are changing, or you're simply realizing that you don't want the next chapter of your marriage to look like the last one.

You don't have to wait for a crisis to create a stronger marriage.

Marriage Reset is about making a good marriage even better, and helping you build the relationship you want for the years ahead.

What if my spouse is reluctant to participate?

You're not alone. This is incredibly common.

When one spouse hears "marriage coaching," they may immediately think, "You're saying something is wrong with me,"or "You're going to tell me everything I'm doing wrong."

That's not what The Marriage Reset Challenge is about.

I don't believe in blaming one spouse or trying to turn you into your partner's therapist.

The invitation is to approach your marriage as "us against the problem."

If your spouse is hesitant, don't turn Marriage Reset into another thing you fight about. Instead, we can talk about how to approach the conversation in a way that creates safety rather than pressure.

And remember: you can always begin by working on your own side of the relationship.

Is Marriage Reset marriage counseling?

No. Marriage Reset is marriage coaching, not marriage counseling or therapy.

Marriage counseling typically focuses on diagnosing and treating relationship or mental health concerns and may involve working through significant psychological or clinical issues.

Marriage coaching is more focused on growth, skill-building, connection, communication, and creating the relationship you want moving forward.

Marriage Reset is designed for couples who want practical tools, guided conversations, coaching, and accountability to help them strengthen their marriage.

If you are experiencing serious mental health concerns, abuse, addiction, or other issues requiring clinical treatment, marriage coaching may not be the appropriate level of support. In those situations, I encourage you to seek qualified professional care.

How much time should we expect to spend each week?

Plan on approximately 1–2 hours together each week.

You'll watch a short, focused lesson together, complete a simple reset exercise or conversation, and then have the opportunity to bring your questions and experiences to our weekly coaching call.

The goal isn't to give you more homework.

The goal is to help you actually use what you're learning in your real marriage.

Even a small amount of intentional time together each week can begin to change the way you communicate and connect.

What happens during the weekly coaching calls?

The weekly coaching calls are where we take what you're learning and apply it to real life.

You'll have an opportunity to ask questions, get coaching around situations you're experiencing, learn from other couples, and receive guidance as you practice the tools from that week's lesson.

I'll help you look at what's happening without taking sides or assigning blame.

We'll focus on questions like:

What's really happening beneath this conflict?

What part of this belongs to you?

What does your spouse want you to understand?

How can you approach this differently next time?

The goal isn't to determine who's right.

The goal is to help you find your way back to each other.

What if we miss a live coaching call?

Life happens! If you can't make a live call, you won't be left behind.

You'll have access to the recorded coaching session so you can watch it when it works for you.

I do encourage couples to attend live whenever possible because the opportunity to ask questions and receive coaching in the moment can be incredibly valuable.

And remember, The Marriage Reset Challenge isn't about doing everything perfectly.

It's about intentionally showing up for your marriage.

Is The Marriage Reset Challenge appropriate for couples who are already doing well?

Absolutely.

In fact, I believe this is one of the best reasons to participate.

You don't wait until your body is sick to start taking care of your health. You don't wait until your house is falling apart to do maintenance.

Why would we wait until our marriage is in crisis?

Marriage Reset gives couples an opportunity to strengthen the foundation they've already built, deepen their friendship, improve communication, create greater emotional and physical intimacy, and intentionally design the next chapter of their marriage.

Because the goal isn't simply to stay married.

The goal is to build a marriage you both love coming home to.

What if we've tried marriage counseling before and it didn't work?

You're not alone, and trying something before doesn't mean you've tried everything.

Sometimes couples leave counseling with insight but aren't sure how to translate that insight into everyday life. Marriage Reset takes a very practical, skills-based approach. Rather than spending eight weeks simply talking about what's wrong, we'll focus on learning new ways to communicate, respond, repair, connect, and build your relationship.

And if you've had a disappointing experience with counseling, this is the perfect time to try a new approach. You haven't failed, perhaps therapy wasn't the right modality for you. 

Sometimes you don't need more information. You need a different approach, the right tools, and a safe place to practice them together.

Your Marriage Story Is Not Finished.

The distance that developed slowly can be healed intentionally.

The friendship that faded can be rebuilt.

The connection you miss can be created again.

If your heart is saying:

"I want this."

"I want to invest in us."

"I want to find our way back."

I would love to welcome you into Marriage Reset.